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Accomplish Anything Now! Presented by Robert Allen Fahey, Ph.D. Personal & Professional Business Life Coach (239) 267-7480
The benefits of reading this article include you being:
· Recognized as a very special kind of person with ancient wisdom and power · In a position to experience the development of extraordinary skills of positive mind dynamics · Live out only a part of the solution to everyday problems · Be making all of your good choices great
Therefore, before you start learning about how to accomplish anything now, please first take a close look at yourself, inside and out. Remember you are going to be a model for your future life and work. Where do you live now? What are your surroundings like? How do you relate to your friends and family, negatively or positively? What interests do you pursue to better yourself? What adventures do you have in mind?
Truly, what do you want? Do you want wealth, success, happiness and peace of mind? Do you want a family, a yard, a yacht, or sports car? Where are you going yourself? Do you have any specific goals or like millions of others are you wandering through life?
You can certainly get more out of life by practicing daily success principles such as the ones given in this report that will help you change practically in seconds! Once you have a particular goal in mind, you can fulfill that desire faster, easier and with a straightforward commitment and total conviction. However, this is possible if you know what it is you want.
The Key To Knowing What You Want!
The two facts that apply to everyone are:
1) Each of us has a fear of something, and 2) Everyone wants something
Think for a moment in silence what exactly it is that you want? Maybe your special goal is to lose weight, buy a new car, get a promotion, or find a loving mate.
Whether you want a new place to live or to be a corporate president, any avenue of prosperity and achievement is open to you provided the goal is something you deeply desire. No goal is too small for any person's mind to handle; no dream is too big. If you are not clear about your desires, consider the use of relaxation and meditation to help you tap into your subconscious mind to help guide you on your right path to success.
Can you absolutely change your life? Do you want to? Can you picture yourself being successful? If so, how does it feel? If you have the desire to achieve your goals, to help yourself and others, and the commitment to follow through and can imagine yourself already in the positive position you dream of, then you are more than halfway to its achievement.
It is important to know that successful people throughout history have obeyed specific laws to attain their heart's desires. Throughout history, the successful leaders always kept an open mind and a hopeful outlook on their life and career. These leaders dressed for success. They acted daily in a way that conveyed messages they already achieved their goal and then simply let reality catch up to them.
Again, answer truthfully question one. What do you really want?
Choose one or more goals to achieve; Money, recognition, health, physical energy, creativity, power, adventure, love, contentment, peace of mind, achievement, self-expression, enlightenment, beauty, or leadership. Would you like any of these? If you are like most people today, you probably want all of these.
If you search your true desires, you may find there are a few specific things you want more than other things. Keep moving in your search and you will find one desire that has been with you your whole lifetime: the one path you need to follow: Your destiny! For example, although money is an obvious desire, it is usually not the final goal. Indeed, money can and does buy happiness, but up to a point. Once you have enough money to be financially secure or buy all of the material objects you want, your true desire might be something else.
Love is the goal of every person's heart. Whether it is love of a mate, family, or respect and recognition from peers and fellow workers, love is the ageless pursuit. The mystics say that love is the sole purpose of life, to give love and to find it. However, love comes in many forms. Not only is there the overt display of affection or true inner feelings, but there is the self-respect and inner contentment that goes with accomplishment. For some people, true peace of mind seems to be always at a distance until they complete some creative tasks or achieve certain heights in business success.
Many people seek the authority and power that comes with a good position in a job. With extra power, there is the likelihood of more recognition, and fame. Although you may want the money and power that is associated with doing certain types of professional work, many simply seek the satisfaction of helping others live a better life. It comes down to choice.
One goal of every person is good health. A sound body is the gift that will get you to other goals you desire.
For example, adventure and travel is a driving force for many people. They may seek jobs that involve travel or they may be looking forward to taking time off to visit some exotic ports. Perhaps you are not into long journeys. Maybe you would like to spend a few weeks in a sunny resort or the luxury of a summer and winter vacation each year.
Additionally, creativity and self-expression are sometimes the goal. What about the book inside all of us that you were going to write, or watercolor class you would like to take? Creative self-expression is a wonderful inner release that boosts confidence and can get you away from your working position for a while giving you something else to accomplish.
Aside from wealth and health, creative expression and love, all of us are looking for peace of mind. That is not to say emptiness of mind, but to say good riddance to petty worries and confusion and to distance our inner self from fear and to live in total awareness. This appears to an ultimate lifetime goal most of us have.
Catch Up With Yourself
It is time to grade your own life and personal desires before moving on to practice change to accomplish anything we want. Test yourself! Nobody is looking. Try to find out what you most desire. Once you know, you can create a plan of action, and achieve all of your goals. All your personal achievements in some way will positively affect how you relate to others.
What is important is that you decide right now, what exactly it is you want. Go ahead and write down three things you want from life. This act will empower you. Do not spend too much time thinking about your three goals. Just write down three things that will make you happy. You may be surprised at what you want. Next, see if there is any relation to the types of desires you most want.
Should you need an extra push, answer the question, “What accomplishments have you made in life that you are most proud about.” “What makes you happy?” Meaning, happy enough to be content, feel relaxed, and to slide back with a smile on your face. Without thinking about failures, mistakes, or past ill feelings, list the big accomplishments of your life. Think about the places you have been, the relationships you encountered, the education you received. Consider your job changes and positions, and the achievements related to work. Next, put a star next to the most important accomplishments of your life. Is there any match with the list of the three things you say that you want now the most?
Making Good Plans Great
Now before you go any further make a short list for your future. Write down a sketch that describes your future self. Writing this sketch is what I call "brainwriting." Wise people throughout the ages have taught us to understand if you want something to write it down! The act of writing a personal future self-image goal crystallizes your thinking and motivates you into positive action. Therefore, go to it and write out a description of what it is you would like to be and will need to accomplish in the next six months, one to three years from now and so forth; a new house, a high-paying job, or a trip around the world?
Break the list down into those things you would like to. Meaning, into reasonable accomplishable parts. Plan acceptable time management details by dividing daily activities you will do each week to achieve your goal and become the person you are capable of becoming. Begin by writing down your personal goals. The list should include your most important desires, the most important things you want to accomplished, and maybe what you will accomplished within 2 months, within 3 months, and beyond.
Remember, You Are The Most Important Person In Your Life.
While you can be kind to your environment and all the people in it, first consider you, your well-being, your happiness, your success. Make a pact with yourself that you will achieve all of your personal goals. Make them realistic to reach. Extract “wishful” thinking from “positive” thinking. In essence, take risk, but be real. Use some old fashioned common sense when planning to achieve anything. Then one by one, make your own life the success it deserves to be.
Before The Race, Relax
An important step in achieving all of your goals is to be able to put yourself into a state of relaxation for visioning purposes. Relaxation brings about balance of the mental, spiritual, and physical aspects of your life. Set aside time daily to go into a meditative state to envision the results of your planned goals. Make it a minimum of two times daily for best result. The state of mind will do you wonders. You breathe in deeply allowing the lungs to fill with fresh air. Then exhale all used and stale air allowing your blood to circulate freely throughout every part of your body. Allow yourself to drift through space knowing your mind will always be on your side working positively to bring you nothing but perfect health, wealth, and success. If you have special problems, tuck them in the back of your mind and do not dwell on them up front. Let yourself and your emotions go. Breathe in positive life-giving air, and breathe out the negative feelings and emotions. Float freely. Relax.
Expect the Best
Expect to achieve and accomplish all your desires and to win. Accept less, but push on to attain more. The higher your goals, the further you will go. Reaching for the moon is no problem, nor will be the neighboring planets. Do not go for less than your full potential. Shoot for the universe. You owe yourself nothing less. Aside from the universe, keep yourself on earth, in your office or home working closer to those goals you want to attain. You have a right to be happy. You have the means to be successful. You can succeed in what you desire. Always keep in mind the fact that you are in transit, reaching your goals, moving through life as though you are an actor, and the setting is a stage.
Keep your thoughts firmly planted on abundance and good fortune. Act as though it were impossible to fail and that you will indeed accomplished all of your goals. With a positive attitude, successful people achieve success.
Do You Have The Potential?
Within you is the power to accomplish anything you want. To achieve your goals you must tune into your true desires. Do not fool yourself into compromising for less than a complete goal. Most people need success feedback. After all what is so noble about achieving something if nobody cares? Recognition is important, as you need to feel that love. Always give yourself credit for all of your achievements. Of course, give others the same recognition.
Set goals that you can personally achieve. Divide them into little tidbits you can accomplish every day, every month, every year. Set goals for success. Then reap the rewards constantly each step of the way. Pat yourself on the back for a good job well done and then move on.
Start now to accomplish the goals you have set out for yourself. In fact, give yourself a task that you can finish by tomorrow. Think of yourself as a successful model for all those who will come into your life asking for help. Dwell on the idea that you are compelled to achieve your own personal goals, living and breathing to have them. The new thought patterns will become your new habitual way of thinking. Your new habitual way of thinking will become noticeable by everyone. You will be an example and directly or indirectly become a teacher showing others how to think, speak, and act in the same way.
Can you see yourself within the six months achieving a few goals? Can you make the decision and commitment to become successful in your desires? Then you have the potential to accomplish anything you want.
The Power of Your Self-Image
Picturing yourself as already successful in your new field is necessary to accomplish anything you want now. Imagine the person you want to become, and you can and will attain that picture in reality.
Forgive yourself. Just as you would another person, tell yourself that it is okay for all those mistakes or the should-haves that keep popping up in your mind. Do not dwell on the past and be blocked by events from long ago. The only way you can get into your future is to get out of the past. Let go of fears and anxieties. Understandably, the act of letting go fear is something easier said than done, however, this must be learned to change negative thoughts into positive ones. Are you afraid of poverty or that you will never make ends meet, or never buy that house, or be destitute once you stop working? Then turn those ideas into positive goals of financial security.
Do people make you anxious? Maybe you feel inferior, and not as good as those you meet. Everybody has feelings of inadequacy. If you do, then turn those ideas around into positive goals. Do not disable yourself by thoughts that you are unattractive. Your thoughts make your reality! Remember, your mind is always on your side for good or for bad.
In most cases, negative thoughts cause you to stay stuck in whatever place you are. Keep moving. Take the risks. You might take up a sport or hobby. Become active in your life. Learn to play and you will grow into the image you see for yourself.
Success in a Business of Your Own
Perhaps the most sought-after goal in our present society is success in a business of our own. Whether you want a promotion into a high-paying management position, or wish to start your own independent enterprise, knowledge of the business world is very important.
As you plan for action to accomplishing your goals, keep in mind that small goals put you closer to the end. Be prepared to change often. You may need to change your ideas instantly, or take the opportunities that come your way during days you normally do not work.
Create an aura of success around you. Successful people dress for success. Even if you are not in a high- income bracket, act as though you have already achieved it without being egotistical or overspending.
Develop an expertise in your field of interest. Do not keep information to yourself. Of course, be known as a person who can keep privacy issues private and other information confidential. On the other hand, be quick to learn all there is about your business or trade. Capitalize on your strengths, and let others help you develop your weaknesses into assets. Get to know the people in your areas of interests. Read newspapers and magazines articles that relate to your field or business. Make appointments with people who are successful and learn from them.
You need to have a total commitment to succeed in any business. Most people who make it to the executive boardroom put in long hours, often at the sacrifice of everything else. Sometimes you will need to ignore the physical effort involved as you mentally become engrossed in business affairs.
Tips on Attaining Wealth
Many people want money as a primary goal. There certainly is nothing wrong with desiring money. Nevertheless, be sure that your true goal is money. Can you live, breathe, eat, and sleep money? Do you dream about money and want it more than any other thing in life?
For true money-seekers, you must be your own boss. The great moneymakers all started and ran their own business. Today, it may seem as though all the good ideas are gone, but there are plenty out there with new ones being created every day.
The secret of the wealthiest people is to find a special need and fill it. You can do this too. Millions of people need your positive help and support to change their lives for the better. Your ideas and participation are in demand. Believe it.
Learning Your Trade
Almost any goal chosen whether it is to be rich, have material wealth or spiritual attainment requires constant learning. How much education do you now have? Do you want more? Perhaps your goal is to get another degree or to secure a special license.
There are countless opportunities to learn more about what makes you tick, about how other people express themselves, and business opportunities. Consider distance online learning, a network marketing business to increase your health, wealth, and success. Keep the end in mind. What do you need to know to get to where you want to be? You do not need a degree in psychology or any other field for true enlightenment to come your way. Whatever you decide do not ever stop learning. It is always a good time to learn more.
Stop Wasting Time
Consider the most important things you need to achieve anything you want. These are high priorities. Now think about those things that seem to take up a lot of time and get you nowhere. Those are the low priorities. Know what is important to achieve and do those things first. Let go of all the busy work or paperwork that piles up. It is better for you to stack those low priorities somewhere else and finish the important material than to spend time clearing your desk to get down to the essential things. Leaders will quickly notice you for the big things you achieve.
Do not procrastinate. What are you waiting for? Few great opportunities will come at you in your lifetime. Focus on what you are doing and do one thing at a time. Do it fast and then do the next thing. Be good at being available, at returning telephone calls, maybe taking them at certain times or calling back at your convenience. Be busy doing important things rather than writing about what you have done.
Look Within
An inner core of all success comes from the positive energy of your subconscious. When your subconscious mind taps into your goals and believes they are good for you, all of your energy will direct themselves towards that goal.
You can consciously create circumstances and conditions of environment and physical presence. An invisible yet powerful level of intelligence will begin to direct your true being. Always remember when the subconscious mind accepts an idea the inner power will complete it. That is why you can accomplish anything you want by creating all outward manifestations to trigger your subconscious into action. Decide on your goals and write them down. The action in essence brings your goal to the inner level.
When you think about your goals and desires, the subconscious instantly hears about every one of them. Next, your subconscious directs your outer and inner energies to achieve your goal with a one-pointed devotion. In this way, you control your destiny and better understand how to help others that same way.
Some people present problems to their inner mind by asking themselves a question before they fall asleep. Often the answer is in their mind when they wake up. Clarity rids confusion. If you find you re-fill with worries and anxieties, spend time thinking them through. Approach them logically, considering the consequences of all possible actions. When you have made a decision, do not agonize over the what-ifs.
You have creative potential. Each moment you spent a little time in creating yourself your true inner person comes more awakened. Look within. Release the handicaps of fear and anxiety through daily relaxation. You will be amazed and refreshed.
Using Daily Positive Suggestions
Never dwell on self-criticism or what you think are your inadequacies. Instead, repeat your goals and the qualities that will make you successful. Remember to write out your goals. In a few words, first picture what you want to attain. Then write what you will do to achieve it. What energies and efforts will you trade for that success?
Give yourself a specific date to accomplish the goal, and specific times to carry out the steps. Put this paper or a note card in a visible place such as taped to the bathroom mirror so you can review it and repeat it at least three times a day. Those who convince themselves they are failures become failures. Successful people believe they will rise to the top and will achieve their goals. Believe in yourself.
Journal Yourself to Full Potential
Keep your goals and ambitions to yourself do not share them with anyone, not yet. Write them down and refer to them. Look at what you write in a month, then in a few months. Work them constantly, and do not be afraid to revise and rewrite. Goals are always changing.
Think of possibilities. What can you achieve in the six months? Then, go for it. Do not play it safe with what you will probably achieve. Push yourself to go further. The rewards are greater. Feel the winning feeling. Feel successful already. Put on the clothes of total accomplishment and peace of mind. Live each day as though you have already reached your goals. There are always new ones to place in front of you.
Do not announce your goals. This will set you up for failure. Even if you make a pact with yourself to attain specific goals, do not chastise yourself if you do not make it. It may have been unrealistic or you may not have tried hard enough
Do it yourself. Only you can help yourself to achieve your desires. Tap into the powers of your subconscious mind daily. Then go ahead, and act on your convictions. Follow them through with devotion and reap the rewards. You can achieve anything you want.
Good Luck!
Robert Allen Fahey
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